Lust & Leiden: Eine kleine Philosophie-Geschichte des Masochismus

“Sadisten und Masochisten verbindet nichts. Der Sadist, wie ihn sich der Marquis de Sade ausdachte, sucht ein Opfer, das er quälen kann.
Der Masochist hingegen einen Komplizen seines Verlangens.”

Venus im Pelz, Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Marquis de Sade, Freud und Nietzsche. Ein wunderbarer kleiner Beitrag von D-Radio Kultur zur Salonfähigkeit der freiwiliigen erotischen Unterwerfung; wahlweise zum Lesen oder Hören. Ich empfehle ganz klar die Audio-Variante!
—> Lust & Leiden: Eine kleine Philosophie-Geschichte des Masochismus

Ich bin im Übrigen viel lieber Komplizin als Marquise… ;)

What’s your favourite type of play?

Someone asked “What’s your favourite kind of play?” in the ProDomme group on Fetlife and I considered it would be nice to publish my answer here as well:

There are many practices I enjoy but what makes me really enjoy a session is a certain kind of feeling, a connection with my client. To know that I am the centre of his universe right now, to see him shiver when I run a finger down his spine, to see little pearls of sweat on his forehead just because I gave him this special evil smile…
When I have this connection with someone even things that are not that high on my personal kink list can thrill me a lot. E.g. recently I deepthroated one of my regulars with a huge strapon. Usually I don’t like that chooking and gagging stuff and wouldn’t think of doing that but in that moment it was absolutely great!

I am much more of a dominant than a sadist. Nevertheless I totally agree with goddessofevil: I love getting a reaction! Nothing is more dull than hitting and teasing your ass off and not getting a reaction.

But of course there are some concrete things I always enjoy:
- Tease & Denial
- Foot & Nylon Fetish
- Latex
- Bondage
- Impact Play (especially canes & single tails)
- Goddess Worship

If you like to follow the full discussion you can find it here.

Ballbusting-Vasektomie

Ja, mit Sarkasmus kann ja nicht jeder… *schmunzel*

Aber mal ernsthaft: Warum ständig diese Ballbusting-Anfragen?!
Die allermeisten Männer würden das im Leben nicht durchstehen. Das kommt doch wieder nur daher, dass es so viel Pornografie zu dem Thema gibt, weil sich das halt unkompliziert darstellen lässt.
Und warum immer diese Zerstörungsterminologien? Das findet sich ja mittlerweile auch massenhaft in Vanilla-Porn. Ich finde das sehr, sehr bedenklich… :(

Ganz am Rande: CBT macht mir durchaus Spaß; gern auch mit den Füßen. Aber den klassischen Tritt in die Eier finde ich persönlich so plump und erotisch, das kann man(n) sich gar nicht vorstellen.
Und selbst wenn Ballbusting mich kicken würde, würde ich für kein Geld der Welt jemanden nachhaltig schädigen. Ich möchte nämlich ganz gern noch ein paar Jahrzehnte mit mir selbst in Frieden leben können.

From dawn till Dawn

Last weekends shooting started pretty early in the morning and it was a very long day. Our last set was me in the white latex legging, the black latex corset, long white latex gloves and kneehigh plateau boots. Uh and the little latex collar and tie of course!
When I was all dressed up and looked in the mirror I spontanously thought: “OMG, I am Dawn!”
Am I the only one seeing the dawnesque touch here? *g*
For all who don’t know who am I talking about: M. Linsner’s Dawn

Latex: Isabeau Ouvert
Whip: Victor Tella

Extreme Pain and Pleasure

Usually I am not much of a pain player. In small, evil doses served with a lovely, charming smile – yes. But pain as the focus of a session? That does not happen that often. The reasons for that are different. One of the most important ones may be that I receive a lot of fetishists and roleplayers where the main interest is naturally in an other field than pain. (And that is totally fine! I really like the structure of my clients! ;) ) But I always had a big love for classical corporal punishment and I always prefered long, flexible tools like canes, crops and single tails.

I am very controlled and nobody ever receives more than he or she can stand when booking a session with me. Pushing someone much too far beyond their personal limits is no pleasure to me and as a responsable Domme I would never do that. I don’t tend to breaking my (human) toys ;)
What I can’t deny is that things are getting really interesting when you don’t need to control yourself, when you can let go and can allow yourself to go with the rush, get into real ecstasy and feel this deep fleshly satisfaction… For this kind of encounter I disregard some sore muscles or blistered palms :D But how much sweeter is this joy if I don’t have to deal with such side effects? When a small movement of my wrist is making you wince and when a hit with a little force makes you scream… When I can watch you nearly ripping down my St. Andrews Cross while I am still relaxed and with a lot of energy to go further and further…
That is something that can only happen with of course a lot of trust and a very high pain limit but what it also needs is a good tool. A lovely client most recently brought me all these gifts of obsession.
I now own a beautiful single tail whip mady by Victor Tella.
What should I say? She is such a beauty and the little snapshot really isn’t doing her justice. Just holding this 16-plait snake whip makes me shiver in pure joy and using her… *rawwww* It’s one of the greatest pleasures I ever had regarding corporal punishment.
I am still amazed and can hardly find the right words for that feeling. I know I already said “Thank you” but I think whip cracks do speak louder than words and so maybe I should say “Thank you” again and again and again with just using this beautiful beast… :)