Someone asked “What’s your favourite kind of play?” in the ProDomme group on Fetlife and I considered it would be nice to publish my answer here as well:
There are many practices I enjoy but what makes me really enjoy a session is a certain kind of feeling, a connection with my client. To know that I am the centre of his universe right now, to see him shiver when I run a finger down his spine, to see little pearls of sweat on his forehead just because I gave him this special evil smile…
When I have this connection with someone even things that are not that high on my personal kink list can thrill me a lot. E.g. recently I deepthroated one of my regulars with a huge strapon. Usually I don’t like that chooking and gagging stuff and wouldn’t think of doing that but in that moment it was absolutely great!
I am much more of a dominant than a sadist. Nevertheless I totally agree with goddessofevil: I love getting a reaction! Nothing is more dull than hitting and teasing your ass off and not getting a reaction.
But of course there are some concrete things I always enjoy:
- Tease & Denial
- Foot & Nylon Fetish
- Impact Play (especially canes & single tails)
- Goddess Worship
If you like to follow the full discussion you can find it here.